ADAPTING
I'm sure everyone will face this kind of situation;adapting. And I'm sure that everyone has their own opinion about it. For me its kinda a hard situation, I got depressed and I cried for days. It sucks to imagine coming to a school where your besties aren't there. I've moved for 3 weeks to a new school and here is my experience.
My friends often ask me, "Why do you want to be here?", and I say, "I don't know". Cause I really don't. It was just like there was something that pushed or convinced me that this is the right place for me. I don't have any certain reason why I wanted to be here. For once, I regret the decision I made. I was thinking hardly why did I really want to be here, what was my concern, etc. But, I'm glad that my family and friends are really supportive, they support and motivate me all the time. And they brought a huge impact for my adaptation.
I was talking to my best friend that moved to the same school with me, I told her that I regret the decision I made. And she replied me like this, "Convince yourself that you are here right now is because of God. God has planned everything for us, I also don't have a certain reason why I wanted to be here. The same with you, It was like there was something pushed me to take the decision to move, and I'm sure that was coming from God. He wants us to be here, so we just need to enjoy."
For some of you out there, that still feel uncomfortable with your environment, please give yourself a little more time. Don't compare yourself to others cause everyone has their own capacity. Be patient and keep thinking that you are here because God wants you to be here. I'm sure we can do it :) Fighting!
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