Peace

 

Having a good relationship with people is a must, but we often forget that there is someone that we need to maintain a good relationship the most, yourself. We often care for others until we forget that we need to take care of ourselves more than we care about others. 

In life, surely that there are a lot of ups and downs, but I’m sure even in the downs we still can appreciate ourselves; simply for living and surviving that day. Just don’t be too hard on yourself, because no one knows what you really feel or what you are going through as much as you are. and you should be honest to yourself, it’s hard to be very true and honest to people. what we need to do is be honest with ourselves. if you are tired rest, if you are sad then don’t smile, especially if you are alone

Sometimes we are aiming for people appreciations then we can appreciate ourselves. But, actually, no one really knows your struggle and battleship, so you don’t need to wait for others to be appreciated, appreciate yourself, say thank you, say sorry, just be true to yourself. you need someone to be a reminder, but there’s only one person that can help and change you, yourself. every decision is made by your hand. you belong to yourself.

I felt that it’s easier now when I’m honest to myself, sometimes I still want people to see me as a strong person, but the thing is, I'm fragile, and I don’t want to hide it when I’m with myself. Trust me, you will be happier when you understand and honest with yourself. There’s a sentence that I always remember “Life itself is hard, so don’t be too hard on yourself, because only you who understands yourself truly”. why hide when there’s no one chasing you?

After a long day, a battleship, I think it’s good to say “thank you for surviving”, “sorry for stressing too much”, “sorry for the pressure”, “we get it”, “thank you for today”, “let’s get through it also tomorrow”, “hwaiting”. Spare sometimes to communicate with yourself.

Posted a question box in my igstory a while ago about what words usually they said to themselves.

Here are their responses, thought that it might motivate you too!

Don't forget to say good things to yourself, they deserve it!